Why 90 Day Fiancé Fans Can't Stand Kim Menzies

Kimberly Menzies has reappeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, but many fans still can't stand the star. She debuted on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4, with her love interest and former co-star, Usman "Sojaboy" Umar. At first, she was just an admirer, but she quickly evolved into a super fan, with girlfriend potential.

Alas, their onscreen time was filled with turmoil, and viewers weren't sure that the couple would make it to the end of their first season together. As with Sojaboy's previous marriage, the riotous duo have an "age gap" relationship (she is 18 years older). Kimberly has a forceful personality, which proved to be an issue in her relationship with Sojaboy, due to their cultural differences.


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However, the couple has continued to work hard on their relationship. 90 Day FiancĂ© star Kimberly visited Usman off-screen, and now, she’s going to Nigeria again. However, this time, she's ready to propose. Kim is looking for a few more answers, to ensure that she and "Sojaboy" are meant to be, but she ends up uncovering more lies. As the couple continue to navigate their relationship, many viewers have a difficult time empathizing with the strong-willed American woman.

90DF's Kimberly Menzies Pressured Usman Umar For Intimacy

Usman Umar and Kim Menzies in bed 90 Day Fiance 

Kimberly might've started out as a super fan, but her feelings quickly grew into something more. She flew to Zanzibar to bond more with her future beau, as he filmed his music video, "Zara." However, Kim had one thing on her mind, which was sealing the deal with Usman. In the beginning stages of their relationship, 90 Day Fiancé's Kimberly continued to pressure Usman for intimacy, even though he clearly stated that he wanted to wait. Kimberly resorted to distasteful tactics, like bringing up her son to try and get Usman into bed. This rubbed many viewers the wrong way.

90DF's Kimberly Menzies Is Dramatic

Kim Menzies from 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days kimberly looking upset outside

Along with her powerful personality comes a dramatic side. Kimberly knows what she wants, and she’s not afraid to speak up when two plus two doesn't equal four. However, as a result, she often raises her voice to make a point, or withdraws gifts to punish Usman. In the latest episode, viewers watched her pour her drink on him for the second time, after an argument about wanting four or more wives. Her theatrics often lead to disrespect, and make her appear aggressive.

90DF's Kimberly Menzies Tried to Buy Love


When 90 Day Fiancé franchise celeb Kimberly first appeared on the show, she hadn't even met Usman yet, but she came armed with gifts. The day Usman arrived, she gave him a new laptop and a PlayStation. Viewers later found out on the season that she also gifted him a Sojaboy necklace, which, at the time, she ordered him to give back. While giving presents to a special someone is normal, many fans felt that she was trying to use the gifts to form a bond, instead of building a relationship based on love.

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In the end, many stars have been portrayed in negative ways. While that doesn’t mean that’s who they always are, viewers do see the bad sides of celebrities, and some of them pass judgment. Since Kimberly often has more confrontations than heartfelt scenes, 90 Day FiancĂ©: Happily Ever After? fans still struggle to accept the brash woman.